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Development of Personal and Interpersonal Self
Dialogues…when you think of dialogues you probably associate the word with writing, reading
and English.
Actually, dialogues are the exchange of ideas. Dialoguing goes further however. You can use
dialogue techniques to develop your interpersonal and personal skills.
How dialoging builds interpersonal and personal skills?
To use dialogue to build interpersonal and personal skills, you must also have the ability to
use your self-talk skills.
This is because dialoging involves having a conversation with you. You sit down at a personal
interview and discuss ideas to help you build personal and interpersonal skills. Dialoging
involves discourse because it also involves speech, which you can use private speech to build
your abilities and skills.
When you dialogue you are opening the channel of communication with you, and it allows the
information to flow freely. Meditation practices can help you build this channel of
communication. Using self-talk and meditation combined could help you achieve ultimate
peaks of development.
Dialoguing also involves interchanges whereas sometimes you will substitute, swap ideas and
make transactions along the way. For instance, you may stumble upon a bad habit and by
opening a discussion with you; you can find some sort of substitute to swap out the behavior
or habit that hinders you from complete self-development.
When you practice dialoging it brings you to a crossing point, which ultimately helps you to
understand, accept and find substitutes to swap out poor habits or behaviors.
For instance, per se that you’ve had a problem with getting close to people, and all your life
you spent the vast majority pushing people away or running away. Let’s use dialoging to see
what we come up with.
Dialoging to discover social problems:
First of all, sit down or lie down and relax. We are going to combine some meditative practices
with self-talk to help you discover what is causing your social problem.
You will also take a trip into your subliminal mind to help find answers to this sort of problem.
If you are a trauma survivor and had little counseling, avoid doing this procedure alone.
Once you are relaxed, close your eyes. Think of yourself in an outer body position. In short,
sit someone you fabricate in your mind across a table with you. See that person as you.
Visualize what this person is feeling, thinking, or sensing. Think of yourself as a personal
counselor ready to examine and give these person alternatives to find answers for his or her
problem.
Now let your thoughts randomly express feeling, sensations and let them go with the flow. If
you come to a point of feeling discomfort, discover your discomfort. Learn why you feel this
discomfort by letting the feelings openly come alive. Examine you mentally to see why this
discomfort exists and step back and look at the situation through the eyes of the counselor
you have created mentally.
Analyze the problem. Why do you feel uneasy? What thought made you feel the discomfort?
Ask questions. Don’t be afraid to seek answers and talk with self to find out what the problem
is. Continue this progress until you have explored, analyzed, questioned, and examined all
aspects of the problem at all angles and see what you come up with. Practice daily for faster
results.
You will likely discover that your problem emerged from a historical event that you
experienced in your past. Take a mind trip back to that event and challenge why, what, when,
who, how, etc to find your answers.
Once you find your answers move to understand and accept your problem so that you have
room to grow.
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