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Fear in Interpersonal and Personal Development
Why is it that humans are so afraid to commit themselves to loving each other? People are
afraid of the society they live in. They spend more time worrying about what others will think
of their relationship until they actually forget about the most crucial behaviors given to
humans.
It has often been said that if you love, you might be considered naïve. When you are happy,
then you are just simple and not worth taking serious. If one is generous and care for the
welfare of another, they are considered suspects. Forgiving is a sign of weakness. Developing
trust in others you are likely to be considered a fool. When you take all of the above gestures
and add them up to get an opinion, you may be considered a phony.
People need to realize that in order to form a relationship there are so many actions to take
into consideration. One needs to know about love; compassion; tenderness; caring; sharing
and how to relate to another. Without these fine features life is empty though you may be in
the best of health. You may have a very comfortable home and your life still is empty. Even
though many humans know this behavior, they spend very little time trying to correct their
behavior.
Today, you can find many people that are so sophisticated that they can’t admit to the
confusion and unhappiness that they have let their ego get them into. This can be devastating
to a relationship. Learning to share your love with another can be very overwhelming.
Humans have such little faith when it comes to the flow of life. There is always that need for
permanency or continuity, when the only unchanging quality in life as in love should be growth
and freedom.
Even though so many humans are afraid of a relationship, you still find ill equipped humans
forming friendships; marrying; and raising families with no resources to meet the
overwhelming demands they may have to face head on.
It is very strange that even knowing the desperate need for relating, one may continue
through much of their life to only engage in a thoughtless idle behavior, which will only relate
in one becoming isolated.
There may have been weeks or even months that you may have been happy and full of joy,
and then it happens. You began to wonder: Why is it that this relationship is no more? How
could this have been overlooked? Was it harder then, or now? These are just a few questions
one may ask after a relationship has fail.
Don’t be afraid of loving relationships. This is necessary for life, health and growth. Most of
you have learned from experience, that inability to live in harmony with another is responsible
for many of the fears; anxieties; and mental illnesses. Even those of you that hunger for
closeness and understanding often find that there is nowhere you can turn for help.
Unable to find help, you may continue to engage blindly in a painful, unfulfilling relationship,
which will sap all your energies. Often one will find that they lack the strength and knowledge
to meet the demands of relating.
Humans have obviously not learned much from past years. No one has stopped to think that
humans are not born with opinions regarding other people one has to be taught. It is up to the
individual to discover new solutions and learn new patterns or relating.
Don’t be afraid! Anything that has been learned can be unlearned and relearned. It is only in
this process of change that real hope lays. Take time to yourself and focus on the relationship
you are wanting. Enter into the relationship aware of the advantages and disadvantages.
Never get to comfortable in a relationship; failure could be lurking around the corner.
Why is it that humans are so afraid to commit themselves to loving each other? People are
afraid of the society they live in. They spend more time worrying about what others will think
of their relationship until they actually forget about the most crucial behaviors given to
humans.
It has often been said that if you love, you might be considered naïve. When you are happy,
then you are just simple and not worth taking serious. If one is generous and care for the
welfare of another, they are considered suspects. Forgiving is a sign of weakness. Developing
trust in others you are likely to be considered a fool. When you take all of the above gestures
and add them up to get an opinion, you may be considered a phony.
People need to realize that in order to form a relationship there are so many actions to take
into consideration. One needs to know about love; compassion; tenderness; caring; sharing
and how to relate to another. Without these fine features life is empty though you may be in
the best of health. You may have a very comfortable home and your life still is empty. Even
though many humans know this behavior, they spend very little time trying to correct their
behavior.
Today, you can find many people that are so sophisticated that they can’t admit to the
confusion and unhappiness that they have let their ego get them into. This can be devastating
to a relationship. Learning to share your love with another can be very overwhelming.
Humans have such little faith when it comes to the flow of life. There is always that need for
permanency or continuity, when the only unchanging quality in life as in love should be growth
and freedom.
Even though so many humans are afraid of a relationship, you still find ill equipped humans
forming friendships; marrying; and raising families with no resources to meet the
overwhelming demands they may have to face head on.
It is very strange that even knowing the desperate need for relating, one may continue
through much of their life to only engage in a thoughtless idle behavior, which will only relate
in one becoming isolated.
There may have been weeks or even months that you may have been happy and full of joy,
and then it happens. You began to wonder: Why is it that this relationship is no more? How
could this have been overlooked? Was it harder then, or now? These are just a few questions
one may ask after a relationship has fail.
Don’t be afraid of loving relationships. This is necessary for life, health and growth. Most of
you have learned from experience, that inability to live in harmony with another is responsible
for many of the fears; anxieties; and mental illnesses. Even those of you that hunger for
closeness and understanding often find that there is nowhere you can turn for help.
Unable to find help, you may continue to engage blindly in a painful, unfulfilling relationship,
which will sap all your energies. Often one will find that they lack the strength and knowledge
to meet the demands of relating.
Humans have obviously not learned much from past years. No one has stopped to think that
humans are not born with opinions regarding other people one has to be taught. It is up to the
individual to discover new solutions and learn new patterns or relating.
Don’t be afraid! Anything that has been learned can be unlearned and relearned. It is only in
this process of change that real hope lays. Take time to yourself and focus on the relationship
you are wanting. Enter into the relationship aware of the advantages and disadvantages.
Never get to comfortable in a relationship; failure could be lurking around the corner.
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