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Influences in Social and Personality Development
Influences affect our life in one way or another. For this reason, we must all define how
influences affect us in order to develop our personality and social skills. Our personality and
social skills are also affected by characteristics of other people. For instance, think of how you
would respond to an elderly man compared to a younger female. Think about one of your own
experiences and examine your behaviors, feelings and thoughts closely. You will notice the
change in your behavior, as well as your feelings and thoughts. Think of the ways you
approached the person and how you interacted with that person compared to the older person.
Once you are finished you will see that the way we think, feel and behave is often a reaction
to influences characteristics, behaviors and so on. As humans, we are affected by beauty,
ugliness, age, sex, physical appearances, skin shades and so forth. In fact, the influences that
affect us could be simple, such as what that person is wearing or how that person styles his or
her hair. This is the strength of individual characteristic influences and how strongly they
affect our thinking, feelings and behaviors.
Sounds, voices and other traits also affect how we think, feel and behave. Even a person’s
first or last name could affect our thoughts, feelings and behaviors. For this reason, we must
examine the science and social causes of human behaviors in order to enhance our social and
personality growth process.
Since, all actions and words of other people affect our life it is important that we stay on the
scientific/social level. In some instances, however people tend to exaggerate, so we must also
consider unrealistic patterns of behaviors that affect our process of developing the personality
and social skills. Appearances also play a part in this production.
Because of all the affects of social encounters and the roles, they play in social and
personality development it is difficult for people to keep the prime essentials of self-
development in mind. This prime essential element of self-growth involves natural
interactions. Thus, the key to growing stronger and healthy while progressing, our social skills
and personality, is to keep in on a natural flow.
When you keep it natural, your developmental skills will fall in order. You will work less while
developing your personality and social skills at the same time.
Keep in mind that on-going learning is essential for social and personality development. The
brain alone is your most valuable asset. Your brain enables you to accomplish developing
many abilities and skills, which also processes tons of information daily. One of the major
problems however is that because someone thinks that some tasks are difficult for them to
manage, they often fall into the negative thinking pattern that they cannot accomplish the
task. This only causes them to lose belief in self.
We all have skilled abilities and undeveloped skills. For instance, actors are skilled at mastery
lines to produce a good movie, but they may not be skilled at mastering math. Einstein is
another good example. He was an excellent problem solver, yet he lacked math skills. For this
reason, may people think that if they lack skills they have a disability, yet it could simply be
that this person learns in a different way? One of the best things all of us to do is to identify
our own personal gifts.
By identifying the gifts we all have we can expand our knowledge and work easier through the
social and personality development phase. Go online today to learn more about expanding
your social skills and personality.

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